Ready to Be Tied Up? Let’s Talk Rope!

So, You Want to Tie Me Up? Let’s Talk Rope!

Are you’re thinking about adding some spice to your play? Maybe you’ve been watching a little too much shibari and are feeling inspired? Well, let me tell you, rope play can be incredibly hot. But before you start whipping out that garden hose, let’s talk shop. Bondage rope isn’t for everyone, but if you’re open to experimenting, you can learn some great ways to include it into your scenes!

First things first, let’s ditch the ‘BDSM’ jargon for a minute, shall we? I’m not some clinical case study here. I’m a rope bunny, and I know what I like. And trust me, the right rope can make all the difference.

Shibari vs. ‘Just Tying Me Up’

Now, I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with a good old-fashioned wrist tie. But Shibari? That’s a whole other level. It’s simply art! Every knot, every loop, it’s a masterpiece. And the feeling of being held captive, not just restrained, by those beautiful patterns? Pure bliss.

But let’s be real, sometimes a simple bind is all you need. Maybe you just want to keep your submissive close, or maybe you’re feeling a little naughty and want to see how long she/ he can last before begging for release. Whatever your reason, the right rope is key.

Choosing Your Rope

Jute? Cotton? Nylon? Oh, the choices! Jute feels amazing against the skin, all rough and rustic. Cotton is softer, more forgiving, perfect for those marathon sessions. And nylon? Well, let’s just say it adds a certain bite to the experience.

And don’t even get me started on the thickness. Thicker ropes can be a bit intimidating at first, but they offer so much more control. Trust me, a little bit of struggle can be a very good thing.

Safety First

Now, listen closely, safety is always first. Communication is key. Tell me what you’re planning, and don’t be afraid to shout ‘stop’ if things get too intense. And for goodness sake, keep those safety shears handy.

Where to Find Your Rope

Need some inspiration? Check out DDLGLand for their latest shibari rope additions. Marketplace sites have some amazing handmade ropes too, if you’re feeling fancy. But remember, the best rope is the one that makes you both happy.

So, there you have it, my little guide to rope play. Now go forth and explore! And don’t forget to send me a picture of your masterpiece. If you’d like to read other hints or tips for any kink/ BDSM play, check out my other blog posts here.